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Why I was offended by Geraldine Ferraro's comments on Barack Obama

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There is a harsh reality to affirmative action and diversity initiatives: They sometimes make people of color and women uncomfortable. While many of us support affirmative action, it really is a double-edged sword.

This sword was in full view in the recent comments of Geraldine Ferraro. Well known as the first woman to run on a major party's Presidential ticket, she has also frequently and honestly said that she knows she was picked for the vice-president spot mostly because she is a woman. That doesn't mean that she wasn't qualified to be VP, but the Democratic party and Walter Mondale looked around and decided (most likely due to a poll) that they needed a woman for the ticket.

The backlash against affirmative action is such that knowing you are chosen "just because" you are a woman or a person of color can be debilitating. You start to think others "know" why you got the job. You fail to remember your long list of qualifications and focus on your plumbing or your ethnicity. This is what anti-affirmative action forces want. This distracts you from noticing that someone's frat brother was hired or that, despite other worthy candidates, a Texan is chosen to balance a Presidential ticket. Sure he's qualified, but he will also deliver a wad of electoral votes.

Which is why I was shocked to read Ferraro's recent comments about Barack Obama being "lucky" to be black -- more precisely, a black man -- and running for President. She obviously knows the pressure of being an only or a first. She also should know what comments like hers can do and what message it sends. There are already many myths about black men, we don't need another. One myth that keeps coming up in this election, which I believe has been spoken of by Senator Obama himself, is the idea that there are more black men in prison than in college. The Rev. Susan Brooks Thistlethwaite repeats this myth in Obama's defense.

In order not to muddy this train of thought, I won't cover other race- and gender-based comments by either campaigns. I want us to focus on Ferraro's comments here.

Yes, I will admit it can be fun, sometimes liberating, to be the only girl on a football field. It feeds your need to be seen as not girly. You know people are watching. But it can be this glare that can break you. Ask Shannon Faulkner, the first woman to enter the Citadel. Try being the only black woman engineer at a conference. Yes, recruiters will certainly notice you, but everything you say will be scruitinzed. Far too often, a misstep will be attributed to your skin color or gender and not your lack of experience. For every Sally Ride there is a Lisa Nowak.

About the Author

Veronica I. Arreola is a professional feminist living in Chicago with her husband & Mini-Me daughter. You can read more of her rants at http://vivalafeminista.blogspot.com .

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3 comments so far...

  • Awesome article. Very well stated. I thought I was the only one who believed it was necessary to say something about the back-handed slap Geraldine gave to Obama. I didn't appreciate it.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by caramelsugarberry38 on 31st March 2008

  • yes, i think it's kind of crazy that so much attention is being paid to skin color and gender. i just want someone with a brain in the white house - someone who can communicate in a manner everyone can understand and someone who can repair broken relationships with leaders in countries around the world. We need someone who can lead the country effecitvely. i dont really care about gender, race, religion, etc. unless the perfect candidate was being held from office because of those things.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Kate on 19th March 2008

  • "Lucky" to be black? You're right, that's a discriminatory statement right there. I'm excited about the choices we have this election, and I'm excited to see that we may (please please please) elect our first African-American or female president. But most of all, I'm excited to have a chance to get a forward-thinking liberal into office, male or female, black or white.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Daisy on 15th March 2008

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