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The Unexpected Work Glitch

Categories: Work/Life

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juggleAh, motherhood. It is always there, banging on your door, even when you have “important things to do.” Like meetings with new clients. Case in point: I was driving my 2-year-old to daycare and then heading directly to a client meeting afterward, hoping to make it there within minutes of the designated time.

I get to baby’s daycare. It looked eerily quiet.

Then it hit me. It was a Jewish holiday and baby is enrolled in a daycare at the Jewish synagogue. I now had baby in the car with me with no other option but driving to my client meeting.

“Think think think. You don’t get paid the big bucks to not think of a solution,” my professional brain told me.

“Hey, you’re a mom, what do you expect?” said my mommy brain.

I called the babysitter. No answer. Left a desperate message on her answering machine. I called the backup babysitter. No answer.

Maybe I could drop her off at my friend’s office - she works alone in her office. Maybe she could do it.

No, I remembered, she is out of town.

Then I thought of a girlfriend who works from home. Like me. Maybe she could do it. Of course, I felt absolutely terrible asking her to do it because I would never ever want her to think that I didn’t respect the fact that she worked from home. As a WAHM, I know how important it is that people understand that even though I’m home I am indeed working.

“Can I ask a totally inappropriate favor of you?” I prefaced.

She didn’t hesitate. “I’ll be right there,” she said.

I arrived at the client meeting with a 2-year-old who was suddenly a clingy vine in my arms. She refused to let me put her down. The clients were incredibly accommodating about the entire situation, however, I was having a hard time entering my Business Brain. I was being held hostage in Mommy Mode, not conducive to a professional discussion - about social networking and digital marketing, no less.

To say I breathed a huge sigh of relief when my friend arrived is putting it mildly. I think I melted into a puddle on the floor before I composed myself, reprogrammed my brain to access my tech knowledge, and began the meeting again.

Afterward, I headed out to the parking lot to find my friend and baby sitting in the sun, reading a book and blowing bubbles.

“Hi Mommy!” my daughter said with a big smile and outreached arms.

“Hi Baby,” I said as I picked her up. Switch off Business Brain. Switch on Mommy Mode.

Big sigh.

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  • Life gets so ridiculous sometimes, doesn’t it? I find myself in situations like that often. One side saying “I HAVE to be at work! I have an important meeting!” other side saying “Well, sick baby can’t watch herself!”

    amanda  |  June 10th, 2008 at 1:15 pm

  • Are you sure you’re not reciting my day???

    Brandi Magill  |  June 10th, 2008 at 10:59 pm

  • Wow…I felt like I was reading a story about my own work life. I have an 8yr old daughter and 4 month old son -work full time in corporate america and opened up an online store for Arbonne - http://purenature.myarbonne.com.

    Anyway, just last week I had to pick up my son from the sitter (only 3 doors down - what a blessing) and make a conference call around 4pm. When I arrived he was asleep - I thought to myself…perfect! My daughter was playing at a friends house, so my timing would work out just fine = wrong!!!

    As I was dialing into the call and logging on to the webex…he started to fuss - uh oh! Then I announced my name for the meeting when all of a sudden before I could hit the mute button on my cell phone - there was a blood curdling scream from my loving son!! My clients were like - what in the heck is that??? I hung my head alone in my office, held my son tight to comfort him and apologized for the disruption. Humbly I explained I had to take the call from home as the sitter had to leave early and in an instant what was going to be a pretty stressful call anyway…turned out to be pretty funny. My clients were very gracious and appreciated my participation - and my son’s too!

    Erin  |  June 12th, 2008 at 1:31 am

  • OMG, I totally relate to this post. I find myself held hostage by Mommy Mode at the most innoportune times… and then Business Brain kicks in after bedtime and I can’t figure out how to turn it off.

    Glad your friend was able to help (and that she understood)!

    Lylah  |  June 16th, 2008 at 9:27 pm

  • OH wow, I’ve been in that sticky place several times! I loathe having to feel apologetic because I have a baby- I have a secret fear that I’m projecting something horribly negative onto my baby that years of therapy can’t erase. I’m so glad I found this blog. The other mommy blogs make me feel like I’m some kind of baby terrorist because I have to work.

    Cindy  |  June 20th, 2008 at 7:09 pm