Bitchiness in between females in corporate workplaces
It is unbelievable how many females in the workplace will say whatever they need to (truth, twisted truth or complete bull) in order to stay on top of the game, especially when there are new comers.
I have mainly always worked in retail or sales where there are many females, but majority of them seem to lack the "bitch factor" and can get alone with everyone no problem.
As soon as you walk into a corporate job it sticks out like a pig on the road. Whether or not a jealousy plays a big part in the attitude and culture that creates the tension and uneasiness in the workplace, only they will know. But what is completely fair is when there are new comers who get treated like trash because they have been there longer. Who cares, its not about how long you have been in a position but what you contribute to the team.
I'll never understand why people are worried about their job positions, at the end of the day its only a title and I'm sure that the large majority of employers aren't bad enough to give you a large pay cut. Please understand that if you do get replaced from your job title its not personal, it just means that there is someone who can better the outcome for your job title.
But its amazing how tight females clan are in the workplace and the amount of things they'll say just to make you look bad or because it was their mistake which they won't earn up to.
Personally I've always grown up with males so I don't have the female look on a lot of aspects in life, but this does make it easier in the workplace as many jobs still have a large population of male employees yet they are the easiest to communicate and work with.
But keep in mind that there is a big difference between gossiping and expressing your thoughts on something that has happened directly to you. But it seems that a lot of corporate companies have this problem and it because a constant and forever living culture if not stopped.
Particularly I've had enough of bitching and gossiping in the workplace, especially when those people (manager's, supervisors and other workers) won't attention the problem to your face but instead run to higher management to make you look really bad. I work in a female dominated department of a company and I struggle to work with females, hence I like to know what I need to in order just to do my job without having to ask any questions, not having to converse with them.
But either way it will come bite you in the bum whether you decide to stay silent at the time of the comments (especially when they are directed at you) or whether you speak up. There is no easy way around female bitchiness in the workplace, but you have to be strong a persistent things can't always stay that bad can they?