There are a lot of physical changes that happen during 9 months of pregnancy. You can read a book about what to expect month by month and how to handle these changes. The hardest thing for me during my pregnancy was wondering how I was going to handle being a mom. Was I going to love my child right from birth? Would we need to warm up to each other? Would my "motherly instincts" kick in?
I'm glad to report that all of my worrying was for nothing. My two week old daughter has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. We are working on our bond every day as well as building that trust in each other.
During your pregnancy, were you worried about how you would feel being a first time mom?