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Posted 26th January 2009 by Lacie, tagged family, work, cooking, mom, cleaning

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I work outside the home 8 hours a day/ 5 days a week. When I get off work in the evenings, I go home and work another 6 hours taking care of my family and home. Being a mom who works outside the home full time isn't easy. I dream of the day when my laundry is caught up, I can make wholesome dinners every night for my family, and still squeeze in time to do a craft with my children.

There just simply doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day to accomplish all of this. Weekends tend to be the time that we try to catch up on all of those things....problems is that by time the weekend rolls around, I'm too exhausted. But, it needs to be done. Thankfully I have an awesome hubby who doesn't mind helping cook, clean and take care of the children.

This purpose of this post is NOT:

To debate being a working mom vs. a stay at home mom

Nor is it a gripe session for me.

The purpose is to get inside the hearts and minds of other working moms. I want your thoughts and advice.

  • How do you manage working and being wife and mommy?
  • Do you have any secrets/tips on how to better manage your time?
  • Do you have time saving cleaning tips?
  • Do you have meal preparation tips?
  • Do you have time management tips?

 

This was also posted on The Shipman Family





2 comments so far...

  • I am still figuring it out myself and like you I am fortunate to have a great husband who is a huge help. I have gotten some advice that I hope to use along with a few items of my own.

    * Get help/farm it out. This is of course within your budget, but can you afford to have someone come and clean even once every few months?

    * Dinner prep places. There are some really good ones out there (and some poor ones). My friend uses these almost every week and loves them. They do a lot of the prep and it makes cooking easier.

    * Crockpot meals. These have been a life saver for me.

    My husband and I are both in grad school and trying to graduate so we need a lot of time to write/study. To do this we take turns on evenings and occasional weekend days where one of us is 'on' and one is 'off'. We often take our daughter out of the house to storytimes, parks, etc and let the other work. This could work with housework as well.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Stacey S on 28th January 2009

  • Hi! I am also a working mama. I drop off my son (he is 2) at 7:15 so I can be at work by 7:30. I work 8 1/2 hours (and no, they do not include our lunch in our time as you can see) and pick up my son at 4:15. We like to eat dinner between 5 and 5:30, so thankfully, I have an amazing husband who comes home at roughly the same time I do and we prepare dinner together while our little guy "helps" us. If the "helping" does not work, then my husband and I tend to take a lot of turns with playing with our son and cooking. We like to talk about what we are having for dinner for the week on Sundays. We try to stick with that and have everything on hand for the preparation of the food. We like to go out to eat once a week as a family. After we finish dinner, all attention is on our son. Since we are gone from him for so long during the day, we make the most out of our evenings together. If he wants to play outside, we all go outside together. If he wants to color, we all color together. We love giving him our undivided attention. We have had a pretty tight schedule in our house since our son was only a few months old and this works well for us. If not, my husband and I would be so exhausted by the time morning came that we wouldn't be able to function at work. Bath time and bed time are the same time every night. If we go even 30 minutes over, he would be asleep in our arms. Bath is at 6:30 and lights out around 7:15-7:30. After that, my husband and I do as much as we can around the house (cleaning, emails, mail, etc.). We don't like to do a lot of those things on the weekends because we want to spend as much quality time with our son as possible. And then lights out for us around 9:30. I know this may not be the right schedule for everyone, but we couldn't live without it.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Lauren on 27th January 2009

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