DH and I were just having this conversation last night. I'd love to hear everyone else's comments as well. We don't know if we're even having a boy, but figure we should try to make a decision just in case.
If we have a boy, I don't want him circumsised. Because we don't have any religious reasons, I think it's an unnecessary surgical procedure. DH wants it done so that they would look the same. I think it's easy enough to explain why they look different when the kid is old enough to wonder. DH isn't concerned about cleanliness or increased risk of STDs. We figure we can teach hygiene and safe sex.
Neither of us is overwhelmingly adament, but there's no in between here so it's hard to compromise on a choice.