Hi Guys! My divorce was final a year ago and I know how tough it is! I have three kids and it was hard on them also. I recommend a book called Can There Be More? by Heather Hogan. You can get it at barnesandnoble.com. It is about this woman's life from the age of the three when she lost her mother. You will laugh and cry your way through the whole book. BUT what you will love and appreciate is her insight and thoughtfullness on the subject of divorce. She takes you through her divorce from start to finish, all I can say is do yourself a favor and get this book!