I am just another mom but absolutely feel you on this one. Before my son I worked out a LOT. My husband works 2nd shift, so in the evenings I would work out for an hour, go home cook, have a glass of wine and be smiling when he got home.... (the vision makes me laugh now) ...now reality is this, Saturday mornings are one day I have vowed to work out and I do...but the other 6 days of the week.... LOL... look more like, get home, feed the kid, figure out what to feed myself and fix hubby for dinner the next night at work... bathe kid, chase kid to bed multiple times before he stays there.... hope there is wine in the house to have a glass at 9pm when its all done... oh yeah and sometimes I have to clean or do laundry in between it. I get up at 5am and leave at 6:30 to be at work by 8, I have one LONG commute, so much like you I struggle to get it in, but as the last post said, the key I've found to be to find short work outs that do the trick. Jackie Warner, she now has a new reality show I think its call thintervention, or something similar, anyhow, her DVDs are broken into short segments and will really kick you into gear quick, so maybe try that at first, finding 15 min is sometimes much more reasonable than an hour and if you have it at home you can do it while envisioning the glass of wine you'll reward yourself with afterwards! good luck!