I've recently been dealing with guilt and I don't really have an answer. My husband stays at home with our 10month old daughter and our 5 yr old son when he isn't in school, and I work at a public accounting firm. When I get home, I want some "me" time to just watch tv shows or read, but I also know my husband has been taking care of the kids all day and needs a breather. I completely understand why typical households 50 years ago had the working dad was hardly involved in the kids life.. never cooking dinner and spending evenings reading or watching the tv while the mom took care of everything morning noon and night. So am I just being selfish? Should I spend all my time away from work serving my family? One way or the other, I feel like one parent will never get a break. Balance is so difficult.