Hi Maria. I'm a moderator here at Work it, Mom! Just stopped by to say "hey" - we're glad you're here. :) Sounds like you have a lot of work on your plate right now. Hope you will come here to vent when needed! Also hope you can fit in some "you time" soon. Here's a group you might like to check out:
http://www.workitmom.com/group_powerofone