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I want to be selfemployed
Asked on 20th January 2010 |
Asked on 19th October 2009 |
Answered on 21st January 2010:
I think your husband needs to respect your point of view. The thing is that living with the parents has a lot of positive sides as well as negative. It sounds to me that your in laws are less then desirable, that is why you dont want to be around them all the time. A marriage is made of 2 not 3 or 4. I suggest couples counseling, I think it would be good for your husband to hear an objective opinion from a 3rd party. Good Luck and never give up on y our marriage - its not suppose to be easy and do not let anything get in the way of your family being together and happy. By family ...I mean YOU, your husband and your children.
Answered on 7th January 2010:
I went threw the exact same thing, I know its sad and that it hurts as a mommy to not be with your baby and WORK SO MUCH. My son is now 17 months and we are complete soulmates, even though he spends most time in daycare Monday-Friday.
I know now and I feel strongly that my son understands that I have to work FOR HIM and that I do it because I love him and want to take good care of him.
I make the most of bath time and bed time ritual every night , I make it as special and fun as possible, and on the weekend I'm completely all his - I dont let anything or anyone get in the way of my mommy & baby time on Sat and Sunday - sometime family and friends get upset...but who cares ? =)
Since I can't do 100% quantity - I do 100% quality, I'm limited of course but I put all my effort into being the best mommy I can be. I treat my baby time like the most important thing in the world, because it really is. Hope this helps and trust me your son will understand and know in his heart that you love him more than anyone.
Also as your baby get older he can go to bed later and play more with you after bath time on weekdays. My baby at 3 months went to sleep at 7pm - now that he is 17 months he goes to bed at 9pm or even 9:30pm - and this is ok because its all 100% our time to play and have fun.
Do not worry & do your best, everything will be ok.
enjoy your little baby - and trust that the LOVE you feel in your heart will do its trick =)
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