Hi Crockstar Wannabe. Welcome to Work it, Mom! I got a real kick out of reading your profile. What an amazing experience it must be to create a blended family! Did you know we have a discussion group about exactly that? Maybe you'd like to check it out.
http://www.workitmom.com/group_stepmothersandsecondwives

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